Weekend Diversion: 1986, Part 1

A new year, and a new series of Weekend Diversion posts! This week is the first post in this year’s “Weekend Diversion: 1986”, though this was technically the second Number One song of 1986 because the last Number One song of 1985, Lionel Richie’s “Say You, Say Me” (the subject of last year’s Part 26) was also Number One for the first two weeks of 1986 (four weeks altogether).

On January 18, 1986, the first new Number One song of the year was “That's What Friends Are For” (video up top) by "Dionne and Friends”, which was led by Dionne Warwick, alongside Elton John, Gladys Knight, and Stevie Wonder. It was a charity single to raise funds for the American Foundation for AIDS Research, and raised more than US$3 million for the organisation. The song was included on Warwick’s 1985 album, Friends

Like most Number One songs, this was one I heard on the radio quite a lot at the time. I thought it was pleasant enough as a song, and I could tell it was written by Burt Bacharach and Carole Bayer Sager, two of the most talented and prolific songwriters, especially in the 1970s and 1980s. They were also married at the time this song was a hit.

I thought I bought the single of the song, but if I did I no longer have it, though I certainly got it on a compilation album at some point. In 1986, I was working for modest wages, and spent my free doing LGBT+ activism, so I never had big piles of cash. Yet I knew men who had AIDS, so I may have bought the single as a small way of contributing.

However, AmfAR, which the American Foundation for AIDS Research became known as, was often seen as a way for celebrities and other rich people to “do something” without doing very much. It also felt to many folks like it was trying to “straightwash” the issue, especially at a time when people living with AIDS needed support that was hard to get or pay for.

As was so often the case with me in those days, I had a different perspective. First, I felt that raising money for AIDS research was valuable in itself, especially because the US Government of that time couldn’t possibly have cared less about AIDS or the people living with it. If a bunch of celebrities helped make it easier for “Middle America” to not hate gay people in general, or people living with AIDS in particlar, quite as much as they had before, that in itself was a moral good. Eventually, the tide did turn, as it usually does, and things became somewhat easier, especially once Reagan was out of the White House. Maybe this song helped at least a little bit? In my opinion, the attention the celebrities brought—especially Elton John’s massive fundraising—helped society to become more human and humane.

Still, I did like the song well enough, and that’s really the point of all pop music.

“That's What Friends Are For” reached Number One in Australia, Number One in Canada (Platinum), 3 in New Zealand (Gold), 16 in the UK (Silver), and Number One on the USA’s Billboard “Hot 100” as well as their “Adult Contemporary”, and “Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs” charts. The song was also Gold in the USA.

The album Friends reached 29 in Australia, 16 in Canada (Gold), and 12 on the USA’s Billboard “Top Pop Albums” chart, as well as 9 on their “Top Black Albums” chart. It was also 14 on the Cashbox “US Top 100 Albums” and Number 4 on their “US Top 75 Black Contemporary Albums” charts. It was certified Gold in the USA. The album didn’t chart in New Zealand or the UK.

This series will return February 15 with another new Number One from 1986.